Remembering the Bad Stuff

Acknowledging the Bad Stuff

Nothing Is Ever 100 Percent Perfect Those of you who have been following my blog probably know that my husband was the love of my life. My everything. He was my whole world. We were married for 22 years. And then he died. When someone you love passes away, I…

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Widowed, Now What?

Are you newly widowed? Are you completely lost in this new world of grief and widowhood? I remember how horrible those first couple of years were after I lost my husband. I didn’t know what to do. I was devastated. While I can’t take your pain away, I hope this…

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Something To Look Forward To

Something To Look Forward To

Wintertime… It’s grey, rainy and cold outside, and it’s definitely affecting my mood! I’ve noticed lately that I’ve started ruminating again about my husband’s death, our last few years together and the things I wish would have been different, the regrets, the many unanswered questions. It’s easy to fall back…

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Another Year Has Passed

Another Year Has Passed

The year is almost over. It’s been a pretty good one, although I’ve been struggling with some minor health issues. Part of getting older, I guess. All in all, I can’t complain. I’m still alive. My husband has been dead for 12 years now. Sometimes it feels like yesterday, other…

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Christmas Is Coming, Brace Yourself!

The Holidays and Grief

It’s that time of year again. Thanksgiving is behind us, and Christmas is only a few weeks away. Surprisingly, I’m almost done with my Christmas shopping, I just need to get one more present. I usually procrastinate and wait until the last minute, but miraculously I did much better this…

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Halloween and Grief

Halloween and Grief

Is Halloween Offensive to Grievers? It’s almost Halloween again. I’ve never really been a fan of Halloween and all the scary and weird stuff that comes with it. No, I’d rather not have giant spiders, skeletons, ghosts and gravestones decorating my yard. While lots of people enjoy it, it’s just…

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